Wanting what you have

There is an old song (a lot of wisdom in songs), "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find, you get what you need." The key is in seeing that you have all you need right now and then discovering that you love what you have. And if you love what you have, then you truly have all you want. Want what you have, than you will have all you want and you will want for nothing. KJ

Helping Others

Maybe we are not here to save the whole world. Perhaps we are here to just help one person. As it has been said many times, you might not be able to do everything, but each of us can do something. If each person did one thing, to make another's life better, imagine how much nicer our world would be for all of us. We can do it, one "kind gesture" at a time. KJ

What Love looks like

What love looks like. I was placing an item into my granddaughters “memory book” and I found an image that showed me what love looks like.   When I saw the photo of the item, I immediately knew that it represented love. As I gazed at the image, I realized that every piece of it was love.   The little card dangling from the pink ribbon, was hand done, with love.   The printing on the card itself, was placed there with love.   The tiny grains of sugar and cinnamon were poured in with love. The little pink ribbons, were cut, placed and tied with love.   Each cap was screwed on with love.   Even the tape covering the holes (so it wouldn’t spill) were adhered on with love. This is what love looks like. It looks like the little things we do for the people we care about. They don’t have to be monumental tasks or ones that last forever, they are just done with love in the moment. Isn’t that what we all want, love in this moment of time? When you are seeking out what love looks like, look at the little things first. KJ @ KJ-isms  


Relationships are two way streets

All relationships are two way streets. It doesn't matter who that relationship is with, it's a give and take situation. No relationship will survive when one is all give and the other is all take. It has to flow back and forth. You give a little and you take a little, they give a little and they take a little. Balancing the give and take is one of the keys to a healthy and long lasting relationship. KJ @ KJ-isms



What is right for you

Never base your decisions on what other people will think. Base your decisions on what you think. No one except you has to live with the consequences of your decisions, don't let anyone else make the decisions for you. Trust yourself to do what is right for you.  KJ @ KJ-isms  2014



Live the Life you want!

The life you have is the life you want. And when you want it to be different, you just have to make it different. Some folks might disagree and say, well how do we just "make our life different?". This is how (and the secret is... it is simple!). You are riding down the road, singing a tune from the radio, suddenly someone cuts you off! Here is your opportunity to make your life different, because right there you have a choice. How do you feel about the person who just cut you off? Do you flip them the bird, cuss them out and continue on in anger? Or do you say to yourself, well, that person must need to get somewhere faster than I do, continue singing your song and travel along in happiness? And this is true for every situation in your life. You decide. Bad things happen, good things happen but it's how you perceive it and handle it that makes your life what it is.  Will the situation make you a better person, or a bitter person? You choose.  And that is how you will have the life you want.   KJ @ KJ-isms



Education leads to understanding. Understanding leads to tolerance. Tolerance leads to acceptance.  KJ 

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