What is right for you

Never base your decisions on what other people will think. Base your decisions on what you think. No one except you has to live with the consequences of your decisions, don't let anyone else make the decisions for you. Trust yourself to do what is right for you.  KJ @ KJ-isms  2014



Live the Life you want!

The life you have is the life you want. And when you want it to be different, you just have to make it different. Some folks might disagree and say, well how do we just "make our life different?". This is how (and the secret is... it is simple!). You are riding down the road, singing a tune from the radio, suddenly someone cuts you off! Here is your opportunity to make your life different, because right there you have a choice. How do you feel about the person who just cut you off? Do you flip them the bird, cuss them out and continue on in anger? Or do you say to yourself, well, that person must need to get somewhere faster than I do, continue singing your song and travel along in happiness? And this is true for every situation in your life. You decide. Bad things happen, good things happen but it's how you perceive it and handle it that makes your life what it is.  Will the situation make you a better person, or a bitter person? You choose.  And that is how you will have the life you want.   KJ @ KJ-isms



Life is a Game

Life truly is a game. But what some haven't figure out yet, is that the one who wins isn't the one who leaves here with the most money and things. The one who wins the "game" is the one who leaves here with the most love. It's not how much money you have in the bank, it's how many smiles you put on other's faces. It's not how many things you've managed to acquire, it's how many things have you given to someone in need. In the end, we came here with only love and we leave here with only love. So, the question is, how much love will you take with you when you go? KJ @ KJ-isms


Hindsight is 20-20

One day you wake up and you realize that life is really short. That all the petty jealousy and hurts you felt were nothing, compared to what you've lost with people you really love. Wisdom will come and you will realize that "who said what", "who was to blame" and "who should apologize first" won't mean a thing. Because time ran out and all the time spent with resentment was wasted, when it could have been spent loving, caring and cherishing instead. They say hindsight is 20/20, but it is a real shame we have to go so long before we look back and see clearly.   KJ @ KJ-isms 2016

Stepping Away

I grew up believing that what others thought was more important than what I thought and lived a good part of my early life trying to please everyone and really, only disappointing myself. I've learned from experience, that if I don't want to be judged for what I choose to do, I cannot judge others for what they choose to do. It is when we step away from what we "think" is right, that we really see what IS right. KJ @ KJ-isms  2016


Love is letting go

If you love somebody, let them go, if they return, they are yours. If they don't return, they were never really yours in the first place. Love isn't a process of holding so tight we cannot lose someone. Love is a process of letting go and finding out who wants to stay. Love isn't a need for another, love is a desire for another.   KJ @ KJ-isms  2017

Education leads to understanding. Understanding leads to tolerance. Tolerance leads to acceptance.  KJ 

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