I found the weapon that causes us the most pain!  And it wasn’t what I thought it would be.  I guess it only makes sense that the one thing that gives us the most joy, would be the one thing that could give us the most pain.  What took me so long to figure it out?


That’s right, love is our most powerful weapon.  Nothing else will hurt someone so much, as when love is being withheld from them. 

I try, as much as possible, to give unconditional love.  That merely means that I require nothing of the people that I love.  I don’t have expectations of receiving anything in return when I give my love.  Does that mean I don’t desire something in return? Of course not.  We are all here to get and give love.  It’s natural that when you give your love to someone, you hope that it will be returned to you.  That is not always the case, but continue to love them anyway.


There are times when love is used (perhaps unintentionally, perhaps intentionally) as a weapon.  It takes more love, compassion and caring to love someone who has hurt you, than it does to love someone who has not.  Don’t let the pain you may be feeling, over their lack of showing love, cause you to withdraw your love, too.

Different people are in our lives to give us the opportunity to be generous, to be kind, to be understanding, to be nurturing, to be courageous, to be forgiving, to be sympathetic and to be loved. Some people are in our lives to give us the opportunity to learn, so that we may teach others.


Every person is a sum of all their parts. Not just the parts with which you agree or accept. If you want people to love and accept you for all that you are, you must love and accept others for all that they are, too.


Love isn’t easy, Life isn’t easy. Both Love and Life can be very rewarding when we give our love without expectations of receiving in return. You can decide how to live your life, who to spend your life with and you are the only person who can do that. Love yourself unconditionally and you will be able to love others in the same way.


 KJ @ KJ-isms

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